Janine’s Mother Officially Bucks A Toxic Sitcom Trend In Abbott Elementary Season 5

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Generally, Abbott Elementary is a heartwarming show. Despite the school constantly facing challenges and being in disrepair, the characters maintain a positive spirit and work hard to keep things going, often choosing to ignore the severity of the problems. Even the seemingly tough characters, like Melissa and Ava, secretly care deeply about Abbott and its teachers.

While some people, like certain school district officials, have clearly opposed Abbott, even former adversaries are shown in a more positive light in season 4. For example, Ava’s long-time rival, Crystal, surprisingly steps up to help Ava keep her job.

Taraji P. Henson plays Janine’s mother, Vanetta, who is a quietly damaging presence in her life. Vanetta’s focus on herself and habit of putting Janine down initially bring up old insecurities, but Janine eventually recognizes this behavior as unhealthy and starts to establish clear boundaries. Vanetta reappears in season 5, episode 8 of Abbott Elementary, which is a significant moment for Janine and highlights a rift in their relationship.

Janine Sets Her Strongest Boundary Yet With Her Mother In Abbott Elementary Season 5, Episode 8

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Janine and her mother, Vanetta, have always had a difficult relationship, which has been a recurring theme in Abbott Elementary. Janine’s desire to make others happy often clashed with Vanetta’s focus on herself, leading to an imbalance where Janine consistently gave more than she got in return. Vanetta frequently dismissed Janine’s successes, minimized her goals, and expected Janine to do things for her without offering anything in return.

Vanetta would only show up for big events, and then she’d often find fault with Janine’s contributions. It was actually Vanetta exploiting Janine that first made Barbara intervene, and that moment became important in building the relationship between Janine and Barbara on Abbott.

Janine gradually realized her mother’s behavior was harmful and became better at defending herself. She figured out how to set limits without completely ending her relationship with Vanetta, carefully balancing her love and financial obligations with the need to protect herself. This growth comes to a head in season 5, episode 8, “Birthday,” when Janine celebrates her 30th birthday.

Honestly, it was painful to watch Vanetta. She just couldn’t hide how unhappy she was. She basically blew off Gregory, openly mocked Janine’s dreams of getting married and owning a place, and then gave her this ridiculously small gift – only twenty dollars, claiming it was ‘a dollar for every year,’ even though Janine’s thirty! It just perfectly showed how unwilling Vanetta was to even try and be supportive or put in any effort at all.

Janine finally stands up for herself. She rescinds her invitation to Vanetta for her birthday dinner and instead invites Barbara, who has always been a true friend and supporter. This act feels incredibly freeing for Janine, clearly showing she’s now setting healthy boundaries.

Honestly, I was a little disappointed we didn’t get to see more of the dinner scene. It felt like the show was holding back, probably to invest more in the new storyline about the school building. But even with that, the emotional impact was huge. You really feel Janine’s development as a character, and it’s clear this show is dedicated to showing us parent-child relationships that feel genuinely real and change over time.

Older Sitcoms Kept Toxic Relationships For Laughs

Many older sitcoms used unhealthy family relationships as a running joke, repeating the same issues season after season. Back then, shows had a lot of episodes – up to 24 per season – and writers didn’t focus as much on complex character development like they do now.

The show often used harmful patterns like emotional control, playing favorites, or even cruelty as sources of humor, repeating them over and over. Looking back, it’s clear this created a toxic environment. While showing flawed relationships can be relatable and even helpful, making abuse funny is dangerous, particularly when those behaviors are never addressed or fixed.

As a big fan of Friends, I’ve always cringed at how Jack and Judy Geller treated Monica. They clearly played favorites with Ross, and it was painful to watch them constantly put Monica down – dismissing everything she achieved and always picking on her looks and life choices. What bothered me most was how the show repeatedly used jokes about her weight and being a bit of a perfectionist, turning her insecurities into laughs instead of showing how damaging that kind of parental treatment really is.

The character of Marie Barone from Everybody Loves Raymond wouldn’t be well-received on television today. She’s known for being overly controlling and manipulative, constantly interfering in her son and daughter-in-law’s marriage with judgment and passive-aggressive behavior. The show often played this off as funny, but never showed any real consequences for her actions, which could unintentionally suggest that this kind of behavior is okay – or even endearing.

Like many TV mothers, Bev Harris on Roseanne frequently puts down and criticizes her daughter, Jackie. The show often uses Bev’s bossy and critical behavior – like commenting on Jackie’s weight or disapproving of her decisions – for laughs. However, the show doesn’t often show Bev changing or Jackie standing up to her.

Many classic sitcoms relied on harmful dynamics between parents and their adult children for easy laughs, treating these issues as permanent fixtures. This is quite different from shows like Abbott Elementary, which actively addresses and tries to overcome these unhealthy patterns.

Modern Sitcoms Like Abbott Address Challenging Parent-Child Relationships

Today’s network sitcoms are different from older ones. They often deal directly with difficult family dynamics, showing characters changing and openly addressing unhealthy behaviors. A good example is Janine in Abbott Elementary, whose relationship with her mother shows this change. She realizes her mother is controlling and puts a stop to it, which is a move away from the simple jokes about families seen in older sitcoms.

Many sitcoms are exploring similar themes. For example, in Superstore, Amy stands up to her controlling parents, proving her independence while still showing them respect – a good balance between protecting herself and staying loyal to her family. And on Brooklyn Nine-Nine, Jake finally confronts his father about years of emotional distance, directly addressing the issue instead of using it just for laughs.

As a movie fan, I really appreciate what they’re doing with Tim Allen’s character in Shifting Gears. It’s cool that the movie doesn’t shy away from pointing out when he’s being a bit stuck in his ways. It’s not just about getting laughs from those attitudes, but actually showing him being called out on them. It feels like a conscious choice to show growth and the impact of negative behavior, which is way more interesting than just letting those things slide for the sake of a joke. It’s good to see a comedy that also holds its characters accountable.

Many TV shows now focus heavily on characters’ emotional journeys and personal growth, making therapy and self-reflection key parts of the story – you see this in series like Ted Lasso and Shrinking. Even traditional sitcoms, such as Abbott Elementary, are showing characters developing and dealing with difficult family issues in realistic ways.

Accountability Makes Sitcoms Less Funny

As a film buff, one of the things I really love is seeing characters develop and deal with tough situations, especially when they finally stand up for themselves and cut ties with toxic people. But it’s tricky with sitcoms – often, showing that kind of growth means sacrificing some of the humor. Even when it’s done gently and with a light touch, those scenes where characters address old problems just feel more real and impactful than a simple joke. I think Abbott Elementary nails this perfectly; it’s so relatable because it understands that sometimes, emotional honesty is funnier – and more satisfying – than a quick laugh.

Watching Janine in season 5, episode 8 really got to me. Her storyline with Vanessa was so emotional, dealing with her mom’s comments and how it made Janine want to protect herself. It was amazing to see her make choices that felt right for her, even if they were tough. Honestly, those scenes felt like a real turning point for her character, and it was so much deeper than what you usually see in older sitcoms. It was a truly cathartic experience as a viewer.

This episode’s funniest moments actually come from its secondary storylines. Jacob’s over-the-top talent show and the staff ignoring the dangerously broken heater provide much-needed comic relief, offering a break from the more serious main plot.

Many modern sitcoms focus on characters growing and taking responsibility, making that the main story. Jokes and funny situations are often found in smaller, less important storylines. While this approach might not create instant laughs, it’s what allows shows like Abbott Elementary to successfully blend humor, relatable situations, and genuine emotion in a way that resonates with viewers.

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